You may be wondering what tribe the Tulenyuks is,but hold on i will tell you.You see
i have been struggling over the past few months to get a stable House assistant to no avail.Within that period i have ended up with a myriad of girls with different dialects,behaviors and of different tribes.I am not saying that they were bad,but it is very hard to get a person who has been tailor made for you.I know that women will agree wit me on this.She is either too conservative or too outgoing.Whatever the case there will always be something that will bring you at a collision course.
Back to the tribe Tulenyuks.Those three months that i have hired house assistants,i have landed a kikuyu,kamba luhya kalejin meru kisii and now presently luhya again.All these fine ladies have their own mannerism and dialects.These they have impacted to my girls and hence the term i came up with Tulenyuks.This is just a way of saying that as parents who are upwardly mobile and always on the move,we are forced to leave our children sometimes with total strangers and only hope that God almighty will protect them from many a dangers in their day to day living.
Landing a stable house girl in today's world is next to impossible.That now brings a job that is on high demand.Full time mothers.Today's women don't want to be full time mothers.They prefer to leave their children with the House assistant.This has contributed to the rise in early teenage imbalance.When children reach their teens with no parent near to counsel and direct them but the house assistant then it gets tricky.
Parents even though our kids become Tulenyuks,lets always find some time to sit down with them and have a serious talk.
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