TODAY WOMAN AND HOW TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE AND TAKE HOLD OF YOUR FUTURE

Many women walk with a fake positive attitude,but there is no confusing the real thing. It is not brought about by money or material things but by a sheer determination to make it in life and a complete belief in self.
Many a times todays woman is plagued by negative thoughts of giving up. What with the rising costs of living,lack of a sensible income and a shortage of committed men to partner in the life's many ups and downs. Have you ever found yourself in such a situation?Some even have been left with children to fend and the man has gone missing.
The woman being what she is has always found some inner strength to continue and face life
as it dishes what it knows best,hard knocks
Woman,transform yourself. Thats it. Don't expect the shinning prince in armor. And that is why i am against the soap opera mentality because it is confusing many of our young up and coming girls that the good men still exist. Of course some few good men exist sister but go out there with an open mind.
So,back to positive thinking and how it is your only hope of taking hold of your life and transforming it. Take a close look at yourself. Where are you? And where are you headed?
Thump that chest girl and say to yourself,am going to make it. Sheer determination and a belief in yourself will be the only thing that will emancipate you from that that has continually bound you.
Lets be real sister,we are fooling no one but ourselves when we put up a fake smile and pretend to be happy whereas inside we hurt.
So today walk to a mirror woman. Take a long look at yourself. Then take that thought of a prince in shinning armor out of that pretty mind of yours.
You see,men will sometimes take advantage of your innocence and lead you into believing that he loves you. Majority of the times the man is only interested in opening up your legs for his own selfish interests. I like to be plain blank and outright about this topic.
When you are through analyzing yourself girl,go get yourself a life. No fooling around.

How To Look Hot Sexy And Official At The Same Time For The Go-Getter Woman

Many times ladies find themselves in a dilemna when it comes to choosing their clothing.Men tend to have an easier time mainly because they are not too detailed in their dressing apart from some few metro-sexuals.By the way a metro-sexual is a man who is neither male nor female in his dressing and general grooming.Probably you have met them,very particular about their dressing and always obsessively neat.Some wear earrings,plait their hair and even apply lip gloss.
Back to the woman.Below are some tips to help you step out their stylish,sexy and the envy of your Friends.

BE CONFIDENT
Whatever you put on,be confident in it.Many women fail this test because they are never confident in what they are wearing.If for example you decide to put on a knee high skirt or even above the knee short mini skirt,don't then keep on pulling it to get longer.Short skirts are not for the faint hearted.They are for he power girl who will then go ahead and run a meeting in a boardroom full of men.A hint for you ladies,if you are confident with yourself,the men will be taken a back by that and the legs will only make their concentration levels high.Warning! if you are faint hearted avoid the mini skirt.

STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES
Always bring out your strong points and hide your weak points.When choosing your clothing highlight your assets.If you have big hips,wear that nice fitting black trouser which brings out your hips out in an attractive way.You manage to be sexy and official at the same time.For shoes choose average heels.Not too high and not too low.
If you have a big bust put on something that brings it out without showing too much.If your bust is small,polo necks and sweaters will do.

KEEP IT SIMPLE AND NEAT
The greatest commandment in a girls wardrobe is keeping simple and neat.Not unless you are a celebrity in showbiz.
You dont want to overdo it in an effort to look hot.Simple things like your panty line being visible are a big no no.Whether you are putting on a skirt or a trouser you should be careful so that you appear sexy to the guy looking at you.

Bad Hair Day
Bad hair days are every woman's nightmare.With the rising cost of living,you may find yourself missing some appointments with your hairdresser.You have to go to work and it is very disturbing.As we all know hair is a woman's most treasured asset.
On a bad hair day distract all attention from your hair.For example put on some nice jewelry or a really classy shoe.You can even choose one of your best handbags.

Hygiene
It is very crucial that we maintain a high standard of hygiene to complete the whole picture.

Teeth should be brushed atleast twice a day
Shower twice a day
Use nice perfume(not cheap)
Nails should be well manicured
Toes well pedicured

These pointers will help todays woman look feel and act hot,sexy and official at the same time.

Obama's Grandmother Awarded Honorary Doctorate

I always say that my blog celebrates the woman and her achievements.This holds true in the latest development of Barrack Obama's grandmother mama Sarah Obama.The Great Lakes University conferred the Octogenarian with the doctorate for her contribution in empowering other women and society as a whole.
Even though Dr Sarah can only speak her native dholuo,what she has achieved is worth marveling at.She has continued being an inspiration to other women despite her advanced age.
Mama Sarah(now Dr)shot to the limelight during the run up to The Us presidential elections in 2008.The worlds attention was pointed to Kogelo Village and to Dr Sara's living room as she followed the campaigns religiously.
Women you have it in you.You can surpass all obstacles and become the best.You were created to become the best so let no one intimidate you.
Many thirty year olds and forty year olds and fifty year olds are perhaps sitting somewhere feeling sorry for themselves and thinking that they cannot amount to anything .Please pull yourself together and go for it woman.Go back to school,take a course and advance yourself.
Be the best you can become.