Some Men Are Beasts If We Go By The Banana Defiling

The tag men are beasts sometimes can hold water,even though not all of them.When some of us are spending sleepless nights worrying about the well being of our precious little ones,some who already have them in their care are taking advantage of them.The story of a middle aged man in Banana,Nairobi is a shocking example of an enemy within.
The man defiled his three children,a seven year old girl,a five year old boy and a one year old girl.This is an abomination of the highest order and a beastly act if you ask me.
The children were afraid of telling as the defilement went on for days,but the girl decided that enough was enough and confided with her mother.The small girl narrated every detail of how the Father undressed her then removed his trousers and proceeded to defile her.Believe it or not this happened.One person told me once we are as good as our weakest link.Is this what we have become as Citizens.Have we now turned against our very own children?
The children were all taken to NAIROBI WOMEN HOSPITAL but referred to Kenyatta national hospital because of the extent of their injuries.
Parents are advised to always scrutinize the private parts of their small children on a daily basis.Those who defile this little angels might not be far off.It may be that uncle who visits you frequently,the friendly neighbor,or that live in brother in-law.

My Girls Are Now Officially Of The Tulenyuks Tribe As A Result Of Housegirls Short Stunts

You may be wondering what tribe the Tulenyuks is,but hold on i will tell you.You see
i have been struggling over the past few months to get a stable House assistant to no avail.Within that period i have ended up with a myriad of girls with different dialects,behaviors and of different tribes.I am not saying that they were bad,but it is very hard to get a person who has been tailor made for you.I know that women will agree wit me on this.She is either too conservative or too outgoing.Whatever the case there will always be something that will bring you at a collision course.
Back to the tribe Tulenyuks.Those three months that i have hired house assistants,i have landed a kikuyu,kamba luhya kalejin meru kisii and now presently luhya again.All these fine ladies have their own mannerism and dialects.These they have impacted to my girls and hence the term i came up with Tulenyuks.This is just a way of saying that as parents who are upwardly mobile and always on the move,we are forced to leave our children sometimes with total strangers and only hope that God almighty will protect them from many a dangers in their day to day living.
Landing a stable house girl in today's world is next to impossible.That now brings a job that is on high demand.Full time mothers.Today's women don't want to be full time mothers.They prefer to leave their children with the House assistant.This has contributed to the rise in early teenage imbalance.When children reach their teens with no parent near to counsel and direct them but the house assistant then it gets tricky.
Parents even though our kids become Tulenyuks,lets always find some time to sit down with them and have a serious talk.

How To Tell If Your Man Is Cheating On You

To a woman a relationship is very sensitive thing.That is why women are affected most in break ups.This is not to say that men are not affected too.When two people start a relationship,the agreement is always mutual.No matter the level of openness,cheating can be heartbreaking.So ladies how do you tell that your man is cheating?
COMMUNICATION
The phone calls get fewer and fewer.The man had been calling twice or thrice a day and now he calls you after two days?That is a sure enough sign that he is seeing someone else.The problem with the ladies is that they don't want to believe the worst.Be mature enough and ask your man if you can have a talk about this.Problem is that men are not good communicators and he may end up evading you.No matter the case find a way out to nip the problem at the budding stage.
Phone is always on vibrate or silent:He used to be a ring tone addict and then all of a sudden his phone is on silent mode?That means he doesn't want you to know when her other girl is calling.Most of the time he will pick his calls from outside away from you.
STOOD YOU UP?
You wonder why the man stood you up on valentines day and he has never done it before.Well girl,the boy is seeing someone else.Days like valentines,Anniversaries birthdays and graduations should not be forgotten.If now he is forgetting your birthday that should send a red light blinking.
SHARP DRESSING
It is not a crime to dress sharply,but if he starts dressing smartly and overdoing it on a daily basis,then you need to watch out.A man seeing a new woman wants to impress her.So if you want your man back before the other man steals him do something.
LATE COMING
The man used to come straight home from work and even when he was having a drink with the boys,not later than nine pm.Now he is coming at one am and sometimes sleeping out.Well that is a sure sign that another woman is offering him the goodies.Excuses like he was working late don't hold any water any more and you shouldn't fall for them.
THAT NEW PERFUME
He is now wearing a new perfume and using some strange bathing soap.You don't have to wait until he comes home with lipstick smudge on his shirt.You either take your leave or take your man back.

So girls,these are just some of the tell tale signs that your man is most definitely seeing someone else.

Of Sex Business Dark Alleys Of River Road And The Extortionists

When dark falls upon the city of Nairobi,River road wakes up.A flurry of activities sets upon the many streets and alleys.Pubs are full of party enthusiasts.All these is centered on one thing, SEX. Hundreds of girls throng the different corners,pubs and streets ready to sell themselves for as little as a dollar.The uniformed boys take the advantage and prey on the unsuspecting men who they arrest for a release fine of as much as a thousand shillings.The street sweepers are not left behind and are there to arrest the girls,for a fine of course.Once i witnessed a typical arrest taking place.A girl who was barely eighteen was fleeing at high speed from the council officers.Her short skirt barely covering her essentials.The brutal guys were not gentle at all when they caught up with her and even slapped her.I think the council should give these operations to female officers instead of the men.The sex industry is vast in the city of Nairobi seeing all these stakeholders being pulled by it.
In the mix of this is the strip clubs where some other girls get their income.Interestingly,strip clubs attract different classes of girls.Some of the decent girls you might be working with might just be a stripper.So the big question is why do they do it?well the rise in cost of living plays a Major part in it.That is why i think something ought to be done and quick because life is not getting simpler but harder by the day.New employment opportunities need to be created for these girls.
Whatever the case,i still think that our girls deserve better than the dungeons.Someone stretch your hand and offer a helping hand to one girl.Help her through school so that she doesn't end up in the streets selling herself.

Positive Inspiration For The Young Girl Turning To Womanhood

Young girl i am passionate about you.That is why i implore you to keep the hope alive.Growing up,you were always looked down upon.Given second place.Told that you could not do well enough.When you performed better than the boys,then that made news headlines.
I am telling you now.YOUNG beautiful innocent GIRL.Brace yourself for the future.Draw inspiration from deep inside yourself.When life's disappointments and discouragements come your way.When your heart is heavy.When you feel shut down from the rest of the world.Then Young girl know this one thing.You can only look inside yourself.
Learn,my little girl to inspire yourself.When all signs tell you to brood,listen for that faint voice that tells you to smile.Behind every dark cloud,is a silver lining.
Sing the song if need be,
Recite if need be
Memorize if need be
These words are your lifeline.I will make it.I can make it.I am a winner.I am an over comer.I am a life changer.In a male dominated world,the words that come from your mouth matter.The thoughts that run through your mind matter.They should only be positive thoughts.Positive Words.The glass should always be half full,never half empty.
Young girl,Soon you are becoming a young pretty Woman.Ready yourself for the corporate world.Take no for an answer if need be.Conquer the world.Yes you can make it.The only thing that stands between you and your goal,is You.Believe in yourself,that is your tag-line,that is your life line.Your line.Draw it and don't move.The buck stops with you.You are the greatest.Go get them girl.

Kenyan Girls Having A Rough Time In Dubai And Saudi Arabia

It has become common news recently.Young girls narrating their horrifying ordeals
in the foreign Arabian countries.Gross violation of human rights of our young beautiful girls.The two countries namely Dubai and Saudi Arabia are notorious for torturing the girls who are lured there by a promise of a better life and a chance to finally do something worthwhile.
Kenyan girls are among the most hardworking in the world.They are not the ones to while their time doing nothing because as future mothers they know that they have to prepare something for their off-springs.Even back here at home they do various jobs like domestic work,factory work and so forth and so on.It therefore comes as a shock to see our innocent girls being taken advantage and used sometimes even murdered as they fulfill Gods commandment.Thou shall eat from your sweat.
Several girls have actually been murdered by their so called employees in the foreign lands for no obvious reasons.Those that have been lucky enough have spent endless days bargaining with the Kenyan embassy on ways of coming back.The hands off approach taken by the government of Kenya and the Embassies leaves a lot to be desired.As for those who are treating our girls like worthless beings,there is only one thing to say to them.Their hour of reckoning is coming when the almighty will repay them.