Friday, April 16, 2010

How To Tell If Your Man Is Cheating On You

To a woman a relationship is very sensitive thing.That is why women are affected most in break ups.This is not to say that men are not affected too.When two people start a relationship,the agreement is always mutual.No matter the level of openness,cheating can be heartbreaking.So ladies how do you tell that your man is cheating?
COMMUNICATION
The phone calls get fewer and fewer.The man had been calling twice or thrice a day and now he calls you after two days?That is a sure enough sign that he is seeing someone else.The problem with the ladies is that they don't want to believe the worst.Be mature enough and ask your man if you can have a talk about this.Problem is that men are not good communicators and he may end up evading you.No matter the case find a way out to nip the problem at the budding stage.
Phone is always on vibrate or silent:He used to be a ring tone addict and then all of a sudden his phone is on silent mode?That means he doesn't want you to know when her other girl is calling.Most of the time he will pick his calls from outside away from you.
STOOD YOU UP?
You wonder why the man stood you up on valentines day and he has never done it before.Well girl,the boy is seeing someone else.Days like valentines,Anniversaries birthdays and graduations should not be forgotten.If now he is forgetting your birthday that should send a red light blinking.
SHARP DRESSING
It is not a crime to dress sharply,but if he starts dressing smartly and overdoing it on a daily basis,then you need to watch out.A man seeing a new woman wants to impress her.So if you want your man back before the other man steals him do something.
LATE COMING
The man used to come straight home from work and even when he was having a drink with the boys,not later than nine pm.Now he is coming at one am and sometimes sleeping out.Well that is a sure sign that another woman is offering him the goodies.Excuses like he was working late don't hold any water any more and you shouldn't fall for them.
THAT NEW PERFUME
He is now wearing a new perfume and using some strange bathing soap.You don't have to wait until he comes home with lipstick smudge on his shirt.You either take your leave or take your man back.

So girls,these are just some of the tell tale signs that your man is most definitely seeing someone else.

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