Sunday, February 8, 2015

How to treat your woman on Valentines day and thereafter

Valentines day is fast approaching and men all over the world are a worried lot. A lot has happened since the last Valentines day, and if you ask any woman, things went back to normal. No more flowers and Candy and sexy lingerie. No more saying I love you and just cuddling. That ended on he 15th of February after a romantic night of dinner, wine and sex. Now that the day is approaching men are calculating how to make their moves. Most of them have already been consumed by other pleasures starting with the world cup, then the English premiere league and of late the AFCON. Well the woman has been there all along looking and yearning for some love and affection. What a woman wants most is to be loved. It is that simple, yet many men say that women are complicated. Show a woman some love and affection and you have won her over. This however should be all through and not only during Valentines day. I recently met my friend who lives in the United Kingdom. He had come for a short visit here in Kenya and called me for some drinks. Well when I arrived at the venue I met him at the car park accompanied by his wife. We proceeded inside the restaurant and as I sat down on a chair I noticed that he did not, instead he pulled a chair for his wife to sit on and only did so himself after her wife had sat down. I was flabbergasted and asked him whether he did that all the time to which he replied to the affirmative. I told him that  kind of thing we only see in movies.

Well a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step and we can all learn something from our British men. Well they might not be the most romantic men compared with their Italian and French counterpart but at least they still open car doors for their partners and pull out chairs in restaurants

Back to Valentines and the question most men are asking is, how do i impress my partner on Valentines day and thereafter. Well first men can begin slowly getting their communication right. Maybe you have not been calling your woman as often as possible. Call her at least three times a day.
Text her a dozen times. A study by the university of Maryland College of medicine found that women speak 20,000 words in one day. This is almost three time what a man speaks which is 7,000 words.
Therefore call her, ask her how her day is and then when you go home in the evening talk to her some more and then listen to what she has to say. By listening I mean listen, not hear.
Buy her small gifts, this might be a chocolate, a sweet a handkerchief. Remember this is not D Day yet we are just prepping. Tell her how much you love her and value her. When it is time for bed don't think about sex first, think about cuddling. Men are visual beings and they are always ready for sex at any instance. The moment a man sees his woman all he thinks of is getting over with the sex bit and then? Slumber land follows. A woman is an emotional being and even though sex is important it comes gradually. Think of it this way, a man is a gas cooker and a woman is an electric cooker. A gas cooker ignites immediately and extinguishes instantly. An electric cooker on the other hand ignites slowly and also when it comes to cooling off  it does so gradually. Men should learn how to strike a balance so that they can ensure their women are well catered for emotionally. So therefore Cuddling is a key word.
Romantic dinners is also important. Take her out to a Chinese restaurant or whatever restaurant that might bring out the romance. Just the two of you in a get away and candle lit dinner.

Prepping is done and now comes the day itself how do you treat your queen on this very special Valentines day?

Message

Keep sending her a lot of sweet nothing messages and as the day wears on get naughty with the texts
so that she knows what she is in for. This will make her start gradually heating up, remember the electric cooker story? So by the time you get home she will be hot and ready for you.

Flowers

Buy some red roses for her. Red roses symbolizes Love and passion and what better way to tell her you love her than to buy her red roses this valentines. By red roses i mean real live roses and not plastic flowers that are popular during this season.

Red Wine and Chocolate

Red wine and chocolate are an aphrodisiac. This Valentines day don't forget that all important bottle of wine for the two of you lovers. This gets you both in the mood and the woman who we are looking at showing that love will love this a lot


Sexy Lingerie

Of course after all this Love and affection and communication the real thing is going down. Sex is definitely happening. Real Valentines love doesn't need to be boring with the woman 
donning your old T shirt. Invest in some sexy Lingerie for the night. Either red or black would do. Bring this day to a close by giving her passionate love that she will remember for a long, long time. After the love making don't forget to cuddle.

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