Kenyan singles both men and women have been entangled in the dating and relationship game for some time and now its only getting more complicated with the entrance with special pastors who offer prayers for the single and lonely. Enter Pastor Chris Ojigbani, from Nigeria and all the single ladies went gaga. The recent Census carried out some months ago in Kenya put the ratio of women to men at 1:1, This should be happy news to millions of young attractive women looking to be hooked up and walked down the isle. However the relationship game only keeps getting into a miry clay as the singles continue to increase.
Pastor Chris came to Kenya with one mission, to pray for the singles and break every yoke that has been preventing them to be married. The singles flocked the venue,KICC Building right in the heart of Nairobi in the hope that finally prince charming will propose.
You may call this desperate or faith or whatever you want but its good to first understand why we have many single men and women. Is the marriage institution becoming outdated? Are many young people being prevented to go into marriage by their careers?
First of all, we are in the 21st century and I believe no woman wants to be entangled in a marriage situation whereby they are left in the house to cook for their husbands and bear children. So what do women look for in a relationship?
Security
A woman wants a sense of security. She wants to know that her man can protect her from any threat that may come her way. The other form of security is financial. A woman wants to know that her man will provide for all her needs which include food, clothing shelter and beauty.
Mr Handsome
The ideal man should be as handsome as they come. No wonder the western ideas of six pack and all. Every woman dreams of a tall handsome well buit man. No wonder our local television stations are flooded with Mexican soaps depicting the likes of Alehandros and the single women just love these.
Trust
Of course good old trustworthy is also essential in this relationship and singles game. Women are basically emotional beings and when they get into a relationship they need to know that you wont break their hearts. Many men are the complete opposite of this and will be more often than not the ones to be unfaithful. That is why many women are single because they that men cannot be trusted in a relationship.
Performer
A woman wants a man that can satisfy her in bed. Otherwise even if you possess all the above and you fail in this then the relationship is bound to fail. In the olden days women kept quiet about the issue of sex, and many suffered silently with men that could not satisfy their sexual needs. But now in this digital age many women are empowered and demand their rights.
Space
A woman wants a man that will above all give her space. Women don’t want to be micromanaged and followed everywhere. A woman wants to be able to go for a girls night out just the same way the man goes out with the boys to watch a football match.
Enough said about women, what do single men look for in a woman?
Beauty
The woman should be gorgeous so that at least the man can boast to his friends about his new catch.
Intelligent
No man wants to be stuck with a blond so the ideal partner should be intelligent. A university degree is preferable because the man wants to know that his spouse can pursue her career and be able to chip in in the home budget.
Great in Bed
This in fact should be number one. As opposed to women who are emotional beings, men are very much physical and want to get it whenever wherever. So women don’t be saying that my man is a sex maniac, just adapt.
Well so much about the likes and dislike, the fact is that Singles, men and women are going to be their always. Whether or not they are going to walk each other down the isle is a story for another day.
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